Welcome!

Welcome guests! The intent of my blog is to provide a place to post information related to children, families, mental health concerns and aspects of life that impact these. I often find great information that would be nice to share with others such as, interesting readings, videos, or links. Nothing on this blog should be taken as advice on its own, however, as readers/bloggers you should consult with your family doctor or mental health practitioner if an issue seems relevant to you.

Sunday, October 30, 2011

Websites

Try out these websites for helpful tips related to mood and self-esteem.

mindyourmind.ca (particularly good for teens)

selfesteem2go.com

Monday, October 17, 2011

Disordered Eating

Carol Normandi and Laurelee Roark, in their book "It's not about Food", say:

"The issue of food and weight is serving an important function in your life and you have no chance of letting it go until you understand what that function is. This does not mean that you have to understand every emmotional reason why you are over or under eating. But it does mean that you need to realize you've been trying to help yourself the only way you know how".

On this note, if you are struggling with body image or eating concerns, consider things like: feeling insecure, relationships, identity, need for love, reassurance, security and soothing. We often deal with emotional struggles and relationship insecurities/family dysfunction by placing them on to our bodies. Sometimes the only way we know how to soothe ourselves is to eat, but the only way we know how to be accepted, as women in this culture, is to "control" our weight.

Food for thought.
SHC

Interesting Books

  • When the Body says No (trauma)
  • Scattered Minds (ADHD)
  • Cinderally Revisited
  • It's Not About Food by Normandi & Roark
  • Thinking in Pictures: My Life with Autism by Temple Grandin
  • The Optimistic Child by M.Seligman
  • Where the Pavement Ends by Wadden
  • Codependent No More by M.Beattie
  • Raising Adopted Children by L. Ruskai Melina
  • the Dance of Anger by H.G.Lerner
  • Queen Bees and Wannabes by R. Wiseman
  • Get Out of my Life, but first could you drive me and Cheryl to the mall?
  • Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls by M. Pipher
  • Dinosaurs Divorce
  • No Body's Perfect Journal by K. Kirberger