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Welcome guests! The intent of my blog is to provide a place to post information related to children, families, mental health concerns and aspects of life that impact these. I often find great information that would be nice to share with others such as, interesting readings, videos, or links. Nothing on this blog should be taken as advice on its own, however, as readers/bloggers you should consult with your family doctor or mental health practitioner if an issue seems relevant to you.

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Engaging Traumatized clients who Avoid Attachment

I just sat through an excellent course by Rob Muller. If you are a professional in mental health it was well worth the experience. If you are an individual who has experienced a traumatic event , or a professional in the field, you may enjoy the following blog and twitter feed:

Http://trauma.blog.yorku.ca

Or at twitter: trauma and attachment report.

Rob Muller describes the attachment system as "a behavioral system oriented toward seeking protection &maintaining proximity to the attachment figure in response to perceived threat or danger.

Someone who is avoidant in their attachment may: deny feelings of vulnerability; deny hurt; deny loss; devalue intimacy; minimize negative experiences; put a positive spin on negative experiences; and will idealize people or experiences.

Read more in Muller's book Trauma and the Avoidant Client.

Interesting Books

  • When the Body says No (trauma)
  • Scattered Minds (ADHD)
  • Cinderally Revisited
  • It's Not About Food by Normandi & Roark
  • Thinking in Pictures: My Life with Autism by Temple Grandin
  • The Optimistic Child by M.Seligman
  • Where the Pavement Ends by Wadden
  • Codependent No More by M.Beattie
  • Raising Adopted Children by L. Ruskai Melina
  • the Dance of Anger by H.G.Lerner
  • Queen Bees and Wannabes by R. Wiseman
  • Get Out of my Life, but first could you drive me and Cheryl to the mall?
  • Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls by M. Pipher
  • Dinosaurs Divorce
  • No Body's Perfect Journal by K. Kirberger